My Dad

Father's day is coming. It makes me remember my dad. He was no hero. He was just a simple old man. I miss my dad who passed away on 8 November 2004. He was 68 years old when he passed away. His death was rather sudden as both my brother and I have not expected it. We were very sad when he died. It is still painful for me everytime I remember him. I do not know when the pain will lessen.

My dad always help people. He viewed everything in a simple manner. Never make a fuss over anything. In the later years of his life, he walked with a limp. He was a stubborn man. He hardly talk much. He liked to eat guava and eat dessert like sweet chinese dessert and cakes. His patience and tolerance, I admire very much. I have none of his good traits.

I do not consider myself a filial daugther to my dad. We do not see eye to eye on things. I have said some harsh and mean words to him which I regretted very much when he passed away. Words which I never said to him, like sorry or how much I love him.

I hope he has lived a happy life when he was living with me. We may quarrel at times but he is a good father. I miss him very much. It hurts me to think of him. I wish I could turn back the clock so I can treat him better. My brother who is reading this, will definitely say, "I told you so". For those who are reading this, please treat your parent with all your love and respect.