Is hurting someone, a fun thing to do? The answer is no if the person you hurt is someone you has feelings for. Many years ago, there was this man who liked me and he always looked at me in meetings. So one day, he happened to look and I turn my head away. My action hurts him as he went to the gents afterthat. I guess to compose himself/ Why I do this? Yes, I want to hurt him as he has hurt my feelings too.
Seeing him hurt makes me realise that I was a terrible person to do such despicable action. At that moment, all I want to do is go to him and said "sorry". I did not said sorry or do anything about it. Things went back to normal between me and him. Is it normal? I don't think so.
Whenever I think about this incident, I told myself that in future, if given the same thing to happen again, I will not retaliate or hurt another person the way he has hurt me. Why? Because, I will feel more painful than the hurt he feel if he is someone I care about.
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